Last night, I hosted our girls Bible study at our house. There are about eight of us that get together on Tuesday nights and we’re currently reading Crazy Love together. We all agreed it would be easier to rotate houses so that Bible study can be held in different parts of town and so that one person doesn’t have the pressure to host every week.
I asked my dear TC if he and Hudson could go on a little field trip while Bible study was going on. Our house isn’t all that big and toddler voices aren’t all that quiet. I originally suggested that he just take Hudson to his parents’ house and they could all hang out. But he said that he wanted to take Hudson out to eat– all by himself.
I’m not sure that I’ve ever taken Hudson out to eat all by myself. I’m not kidding. I can’t think of a single time when I’ve done it alone.
But TC wanted to. So I packed Hudson’s bag full of fun books and some snacks to entertain Hudson while he waited on his food.
They chose to go to the Original Pancake House– a personal favorite that TC and I frequented when we were dating and he worked until 9:00 p.m. and we didn’t care what time it was when we finally got to see each other and get to a restaurant.
So my boys drove off to the Original Pancake House and my girl friends came over for some great discussion.
TC and Hudson got back home and after everyone left, TC said to me, “I am so proud of our son. He did so great at dinner and I can’t believe how much fun we had.”
I know I’m hormonal. But that just melts me.
And I know that most women agree with me that men should be able to handle their children alone in public and should want to. But not all men want to and not all men do. So I’m proud of my husband and my son. I’m proud that they had a night out alone and neither of them got impatient with the other. I’m proud that I have two guys who love each other so much.
I love that they have a special relationship that is completely different than the one that Hudson and I have, but just as wonderful. And I love that I didn’t have to convince him to have this dinner outing.
Thanks, TC, for braving it on your own last night. I got to have a great evening with some great girls, but was so happy to see you and Hudson both come through the door at the end of the night.







