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We had a really great 3 day weekend. It is so nice when Todd can take an extra day off work. When you work for yourself, you don’t really just take holidays off because it’s a holiday. If he has work to do it still has to get done. He took a week at Christmas and that was really wonderful. And he took New Year’s Day off, too.

We spent New Year’s Eve at home. We put Hudson to bed, then ate a delicious Barefoot Contessa pasta dish. Here’s the recipe if anyone is interested. It was so easy and seriously so delicious. If it was part of my “make healthy choices” resolution, we’d eat it again next week! But it’s not. And we’re not. But it is yummy and I’d definitely make it for a crowd. It tastes a little more like Spring or Summer to me, but it’s South Carolina. Anything goes, right?

Ingredients

  • Vegetable oil
  • 1 tablespoon kosher salt plus 1 1/2 teaspoons
  • 3/4 pound linguine
  • 3 tablespoons unsalted butter
  • 2 1/2 tablespoons good olive oil
  • 1 1/2 tablespoons minced garlic (4 cloves)
  • 1 pound large shrimp (about 16 shrimp), peeled and deveined
  • 1/4 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
  • 1/3 cup chopped fresh parsley leaves
  • 1/2 lemon, zest grated
  • 1/4 cup freshly squeezed lemon juice (2 lemons)
  • 1/4 lemon, thinly sliced in half-rounds
  • 1/8 teaspoon hot red pepper flakes

Directions

Drizzle some oil in a large pot of boiling salted water, add 1 tablespoon of salt and the linguine, and cook for 7 to 10 minutes, or according to the directions on the package.

Meanwhile, in another large (12-inch), heavy-bottomed pan, melt the butter and olive oil over medium-low heat. Add the garlic. Saute for 1 minute. Be careful, the garlic burns easily! Add the shrimp, 1 1/2 teaspoons of salt, and the pepper and saute until the shrimp have just turned pink, about 5 minutes, stirring often. Remove from the heat, add the parsley, lemon zest, lemon juice, lemon slices, and red pepper flakes. Toss to combine.

When the pasta is done, drain the cooked linguine and then put it back in the pot. Immediately add the shrimp and sauce, toss well, and serve.

After dinner, we curled up on the couch and watched Shakespeare in Love (which neither of us had ever seen, but we did happen to own the movie. Still in its original packaging). When the movie ended, it was still only 11:00, so we watched some horrible New Year’s Eve programming and waited for midnight. Around 11:45 we went upstairs and got in bed and stayed awake long enough to give each other and kiss and wish each other a Happy New Year. Eventful, huh? But definitely cozy and just what I wanted.

On New Year’s Day we watched a good amount of football and I spent most of the day psyching myself up to prepare my first traditional New Year’s Day meal of black eyed peas, collard greens, and pork. I turned my black eyed peas into hoppin’ john and I soaked my collard greens in bacon grease and added bacon to the pot. Also not part of “make healthy choices,” but both of the traditional dishes were tolerable, if not delicious. I made a pork tenderloin. My favorite. And we really enjoyed the whole meal. I was actually quite surprised at how well everything turned out for a first-timer.

I think it’s pretty remarkable that Hudson has been alive in two different decades and he’s only 7 months old. He turned 7 months old  today! So you know what that means.

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Monkey pictures tomorrow! (and tonight I’ll be watching Cloudy With a Chance of Meatballs so I can share it with all of you!)

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my 2010 reading list

My friend at In No Simple Language did a great post about the 12 books that she read in 2009 and I’m going to tell you what I read in 2009 and let you in on my goals of the 12 (minimum) books I want to read in 2010. Now, remember, I have a serious problem with buying stacks of books and then buying more stacks of books before I finish the previously purchased books. One of my 30 things to accomplish before turning 30 goals is to read every unread book in my house. But this list for 2010 could change. Because we all know I’m capable of running out and buying a book and completely abandoning the others. (Hopefully all of this reading will keep me from shopping!)

2009 Books: (books marked with a * should be added to your “must read” list!)

Same Kind of Different As Me*

The Help*

My Sister’s Keeper

The Last Song (movie coming out soon and wanted to finish before then)

Dear John (ditto about the movie coming out soon)

The Lucky One*

Mercury in Retrograde

The Shack

Vision in White

2010 Books- I chose 13 books. One for every month of the year and an extra in case we go on an amazing beach vacation:

January- Firefly Lane- I’m currently reading Firefly Lane by Kristin Hannah and it took me a few days to get into it, but now I’m going strong!

February- Something Borrowed- Believe it or not I haven’t read a single book in Emily Giffin’s series. I’ve had them all on my shelves for a long time and I’m finally starting.

March- Something Blue

April- Baby Proof

May- Love the One You’re With

June- South of Broad- Pat Conroy. Charleston. Definitely excited.

July- The Nanny Returns- I loved The Nanny Diaries and I’m excited about the sequel.

August- The Real Real- Another book by the authors of The Nanny Diaries.

September- Bed of Roses- Nora Roberts’ second book in her wedding series.

October- Return to Sullivan’s Island

November- The Glass Castle

December- The Overnight Socialite

One to grow on- American Wife

There it is! At my friend’s recommendation, I joined Goodreads and it is so helpful!

What are you planning on reading this year? Or maybe just this month? Have you read any of my choices? What’d you think?

For those that are wondering where I find the time to read when I have a 7 month old… A handy dandy book light came with my birthday Snuggie (that has since been replaced by the Brookstone Comfy) and I read at night right before I go to sleep with my book light. I try to read at least 2 chapters. I often read more– especially if I’m really into the book.

plans and resolutions for 2010

I would like to set myself up for success, so I tried to make a list of plans and resolutions that are realistic and achievable. I put enough pressure on myself for everything to be perfect as it is, so I definitely don’t want to add any stress to my life.

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Resolutions

1. Run the Cooper River Bridge Run in Charleston with another bloggy friend at the end of March. (Better get started on this!)

2. Visit the gym (I joined today!) at least four times per week.

3. Make healthy choices. This should benefit Todd and me.

4. Become a better wife and mommy. My boys are the most important people in my life, but I need to start doing more to show my appreciation. This includes making dinner more often– and healthy dinner, of course!

5. Continue to grow Blue-Eyed Bride.

6. Figure out a way to create more space at our current home or begin the process of moving to a larger home– in the suburbs.

7. Be less critical and more spontaneous. I’ve come a long way with being less critical, trust me. Spontaneity is more difficult with a baby that goes to bed at 7:00 p.m., but I’m sure I can figure it out!

8. Take some cooking classes so I can become more comfortable preparing things that are a little out of my comfort zone.

9. Join the choir. It’s the right time!

10. Become more aware of who I am and who I am supposed to be. I change a little bit every year and a huge piece of my life changed this year. I like to think that I’m the same person, but it’s hard to be the same person when so much of your life and your time is spent caring for another. I am a child of God and that will never change.

Plans

1. There is a fun Charleston trip scheduled for the end of March! I will be meeting other bloggers there again, and will be running the Cooper River Bridge Run.

2. Todd and I are going to NYC and Boston in May for our two year anniversary. I’ll have to cowgirl up and leave Hudson behind for a few days. I’m sad just thinking about it.

3. I am so excited about attending BlogHer in NYC this year with some of my favorite bloggers.

4. I’ll be having another surgery in early 2010– and hopefully all of this will be behind me.

5. A mommy/baby blogger meet up is in the works for 2010 and I’m so excited. These three women have been such a source of encouragement for me this year and it’s about time we met each other and arranged the marriages of our children!

6. I mentioned yesterday that I’ll be chairing my JL committee this year. That should take up a hefty chunk of time.

 

What are your resolutions for 2010? Anything exciting planned?

2009: a year in review

When did years start flying by so quickly? I know it’s all relative to the amount of years that you’ve been alive. Christmas used to take forever to arrive, but that was when we were 8 years old and one whole year was an eighth of your whole life. I guess this just means that 27 years old isn’t as young as I’d like it to be.

But it has been an incredible year. I have had the heart of a mother for the entire year. That’s really hard to believe. I got pregnant in September of 2008, so that means that just the thought of sweet baby Hudson was with me at the beginning of 2009 and will be with me for the rest of my life!
I’m going to share the highlights of my 2009 with you!

1. Todd and I celebrated one year of marriage in May. We took a long weekend trip to Savannah. I was seriously pregnant and wasn’t able to do as much as I would have liked, but we’ll go back. Now Todd and I are halfway to our second anniversary and are busy planning our 2 year anniversary trip.

2. I received the most beautiful, special gift on June 5 when Hudson was born. It was a long couple of days while I was in labor and delivery, but he’s here. And he’s the most amazing little person I’ve ever met. He turns 7 months old next week. Thank you all for allowing me to brag about him so much for these past seven months. I’m a proud momma, what can I say?

3. I got to spend a lot of time with my parents and brother this year. A lot of that time was a result of my complications from the delivery, but they were there for me and that’s all that matters. Todd, Hudson, and I traveled to Dallas a couple of times and I stayed for two weeks one of those times. This past week in Gatlinburg was a great way to end the year.

4. I fulfilled my first Vice-Chairmanship position in the Junior League of Columbia and have been asked to Chair the same committee next year. A wonderful friendship has come out of my time on this committee over the past few years and I’ve very thankful for that!

5. Todd and I joined our Sunday School class last January and have been unbelievably blessed by the amazing friendships that have developed. We are surrounded by the most loving and supportive couples.

6. In 2009, we traveled to Dallas, Louisiana, Alabama, Florida, Tennessee, and North Carolina. That’s a lot of traveling for a pregnant woman and a baby!

7. I met one of my dearest friends, a fellow blogger, in 2008 and continued to develop that friendship in 2009, along with other friendships. We had an amazing weekend in Charleston and we’re looking forward to doing that again in 2010 with more bloggers. I also got to participate in a so much fun Champagne Thursday in Dallas. I love all of my friends that I’ve met through blogging and Twitter and I look forward to meeting more people in 2010.

8. With the help of the friend mentioned in #7, Blue-Eyed Bride got its own domain and grew even more than it did in 2008. I’m amazed every day by the opportunities that come out of this little blog that didn’t have a comment on it for months. I was paid to blog for SC Johnson company for their new Pledge Multi-Surface product and I learned so much! A camera crew came into our house to film our cleaning trouble spots, I cleaned with Pledge Multi-Surface, and then wrote about it. I’ve been able to do a few product reviews and a fun movie review and DVD giveaway is coming up! Blue-Eyed Bride can be a full-time job for me and I’d love to get full-time job pay from it someday.

9. I became a SAHM in 2009 when I realized that I couldn’t bear to go back to work when I so enjoyed being at home with Hudson every day. It is such a wonderful job and I can’t imagine doing anything else. My dear husband also had a huge career move this year when he and others started their own law firm.

I am so blessed to have such a beautiful family; a loving husband, an adorable son, and two crazy dogs who just happen to worship the ground we walk on. Life is good.

Todd, Hudson, and I are planning on welcoming 2010 at home, in our pajamas, after eating a most delicious celebratory feast! (I could write a book about the reasons that I think that New Year’s Eve is overrated and a disappointment.) We realized that we don’t like having official plans and it’s much more fun to do something low-key– at least that’s the case for us.

I hope you have a safe and happy New Year’s Eve! I’ll be back to wish you an official Happy New Year and let you in on my plans for 2010 and even put my resolutions in writing.

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