Hayes is 8 months old!

Dear Hayes,

My sweet little baby. You are growing up so quickly. I just can’t believe how quickly the time flies.

You still like to sit in your exersaucer occasionally. Now you’re loving your Jump ‘n Go door hanger, too. You love playing with your little Baby Einstein music box and your Melissa and Doug soft stacking rings. Sometimes Hudson even lets your play with some of his toys. But you mostly just chew on them.

the most yellow picture on the planet. i’m no photographer.

You’ve had quite a few ear infections in the last month, but we think you’re on the mend. We’re also prepared to hear the news that you need to have tubes- and that’s okay as long as it makes you feel lots better. Hudson had them and I had them as a baby, and we know they work. Hopefully you won’t need them.

You’ve been doing a much better job with eating. You like the things that I make for you as long as I make them chunkier. You love squash, sweet potatoes, peaches, bananas and green beans. I’ve also given you pieces of pancakes, tiny bites of steamed broccoli, cauliflower and banana. You love the freedom to feed yourself. Peas are your favorite. I’m so happy you’re doing so much better because this has been a big source of worry for me.

Hayes, you’re such a content little guy. I say it every month, but it’s true. You are happy to just sit and watch. You’re never super eager to go anywhere or do anything. You definitely got your daddy’s laid back personality.

You’re still not crawling, but you’re trying so hard. You can move from a seated position to all fours. Then you rock back and forth on all fours or crawl backwards. Then you can move from all fours to a seated position. I think you’ll be so much less frustrated once you start crawling.

You love to hug. When I go to pick you up, you reach up for me and then put your arms around my neck when I hold you. Please don’t ever grow up.

You love for us to read to you. You like to sit in our laps and just look at the pictures. Sometimes you’ll turn around and look back at me and smile, which always makes me laugh, but you do love to read.

You also love music. If there’s music playing then you’re smiling. And you love for us to sing to you.

You’re waking up around 7:30 a.m. and eating breakfast and getting a bottle. We put you back down for a nap around 9:30 and you sleep for an hour. (We have to wait to get home from taking Hudson to school before you can take this morning nap.)

We feed you again a bottle at 10:30 and then you go back down for a nap around noon. (You actually fall asleep in the car when we go to pick up Hudson.)

You get another bottle at 1:30 and go back down at 2:30 for your long nap. You’re up at 4:30 for your supper. We get you good and full so you can go until 7:00-ish before your bed time bottle. You’re in bed, asleep by 7:30 p.m.

We love you, little Hayes. You’ve blessed our lives in so many ways we can’t even count.

Love,

Mommy and Daddy

Stats

Weight: 23 lb 12 oz

Height: Unknown

Diaper: Size 4 during the day and size 5 at night

Clothes: 12 month

a rare picture of Hudson and Hayes. Hudson actually asked to sit next to Hayes to take a picture.

where I share and complain

1. I am sick and tired of the campaign commercials and phone calls that are going on leading up to the South Carolina Republican primary. It’s constant and it’s exhausting. Political opinions aside, my home has been invaded by campaign commercials and phone calls. And it’s going to be worse in the fall!

2. I’m extremely intimidated by a well-written blog. Or maybe I’m intimidated by bloggers who are great writers. Same thing? Thankfully, I can read these blogs and learn from them. They teach me how to find lessons and value in the little things that happen every day that I may have otherwise ignored.

3. I got a few questions about why we’re reading the Bible through this year. For me, it’s not so I can just rattle off scripture, (though having memorized scripture would be pretty great) but so that the Words are just in me and with me at all times. So I know as much as I can know. So that my actions, reactions and words will be changed because of the Word I read daily.

4. The mommy wars are exhausting. I’m so tired of it. And it makes me feel bad about myself because I criticized someone or because someone criticized me. Isn’t there anything else to talk about? Working vs. staying at home. Sleep training vs. not sleep training. Formula vs. breast feeding. Why are these things even discussions? When someone blogs, tweets, posts on Facebook or calls you to talk about her experience, she’s sharing her experience. (I’m not talking about myself here, I promise.) I just feel like I see it everywhere and it’s constant. Let’s just be supportive and stop questioning why someone made the choice she made. I should have added this to my resolution list! I think it’s natural to feel like a different choice is automatically a challenge to the choices we make, but I know that’s not true. I don’t choose differently to challenge someone else. I choose differently because it works best for my family. And I think most moms to do the same thing. Being a mom is hard enough without having to battle other moms.

5. Hudson was awake 5 times last night. We still aren’t sure why. But each time, we tucked him back in and kissed him. He’d fall back asleep for an hour (it felt like 15 minutes) and then he was up again, crying. So sad. We were all very tired this morning.

6. I really like watching Revenge. But I think it’s actually really cheesy lately. Am I alone? The music, the facial expressions. It’s definitely a prime time soap opera, in my opinion. But I can’t stop watching!

7. I started reading Divergent yesterday- finally! I love having a Kindle on my iPhone. If I get a quiet moment to read, I can just pick up my phone and read a quick chapter.

8. Speaking of TV, I had no idea Idol started back last night until I saw it on Twitter. And I didn’t watch it. I’m not sure that I’m going to watch this season. I said that last season and I still watched. Also, I have abandoned watching The Bachelor. No, thank you!

9. I really need to start working on photo books for Hayes. Actually, I need to be taking more pictures of Hayes.

10. Speaking of Hayes… he is 8 months old! And I need to do his 8 month post!

Shrimp & Grits Kids Trunk Show

This is just a reminder that my Shrimp & Grits Kids trunk show is still going on until this weekend. You have a few more days to contact Margaret and place your order if you’re interested!

To see the online catalog, click here!

If you have any questions, or would like to place an order, email Margaret at mkpedler@gmail.com

Can you believe it? It’s already time to place orders for spring and summer clothes!

One of my favorite ways to shop for my boys is through home trunk shows. One of my favorite lines is Shrimp & Grits Kids. These clothes are extremely well made, they’re classic, and they’re down right cute!

Lucky for me, my friend Margaret is now a rep for Shrimp & Grits Kids and she asked me to host an online “show” for her so I could show all of you the adorable clothes for spring and summer.

To see the online catalog, click here!

If you have any questions, or would like to place an order, email Margaret at mkpedler@gmail.com

Take some time to look through the online catalog to see sets for brothers and sisters, sisters, brothers, play clothes and church clothes. I cannot get over how cute everything is this season!

I love that there are casual versions of each pattern in addition to dressier styles. It’s going to be so hard for me to choose, but I’m on the hunt for some coordinating outfits for my boys!

To see the online catalog, click here!

If you have any questions, or would like to place an order, email Margaret at mkpedler@gmail.com

2012 Goals

I know, I know. It’s almost February and I’m just posting my goals for the new year. But I’m still having trouble to remember to write “2012” instead of “2011” on all of our checks and I’m finally just now feeling settled in the new year.

I already did a post about how I want the theme/word of the year to be “quiet.” You can read that here.

When I created my list of goals, I thought of things that I want to do, things I need to do and things that I can do to help my family and me.

1. Read through the Bible. TC and I are doing this together and so far we’re both on track. I’m really enjoying it. This is something I’ve wanted to do for a long time and have just been intimidated. Since TC is doing it with me, I have accountability and we can discuss it. And we do discuss it most nights.

2. Stick to a spending limit of buying one clothing item (or fewer) for myself per month. And pretty much stop buying crap. No more purchases unless it’s a necessity. This will obviously help me stop bringing useless, wasteful things into our home and it will help us save money.

3. Log my calories daily using My Fitness Pal. And gosh darn it. Lose 25 pounds in 2012. For real.

4. Wake up at 6:00 a.m. on weekdays to complete my Bible reading assignment for the day and my Jesus Calling devotional. Use whatever time is left before the boys wake up at 7:30 a.m. to blog and respond to emails.

5. Read at least 25 books in 2012. I read 20 books in 2011 and really slowed down when Hayes was born. I am much more relaxed when I’m reading. Watch minimal TV and unplug more.

6. Meal plan weekly. Stay current with chores daily and maintain an organized home. We spend so much less money on food when I stick to a good meal plan. And the laundry mound is much more manageable when I do a little bit every day.

7. Don’t eat fast food! Well… except for Chick-fi-A on Wednesdays after school. Hudson’s weekly “treat” is to eat Chick-fil-A after school on Wednesdays and we love the Christian Chicken. So that’s when we’ll break the “no fast food” goal.

8. Don’t drink Diet Coke. I didn’t quit cold turkey, but I’ve only had about five total Diet Cokes since the start of 2012. Not too bad. I know eventually I’ll stop wanting it. Maybe? Hopefully.

What are your goals for the new year?

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