pretty maids all in a row

I love my bridesmaids. They were happy, supportive, cheerful, and making me laugh more than ever! Kelly got some great shots of us with the Toss umbrellas I gave them. I’ve threatened Todd that I’ll be putting this group shot above the mantle. Sorry, honey.


small touches, big impact

I really wanted all of our guests to feel like they left knowing who we are and a little about what we like. I tried to convey this with the music, the readings, the menu, the flowers and decor, and anything I could think of. Here are a few of my favorite parts of the day.

– No unity candle. After talking about other weddings with my family and Todd, we all discovered that we’ve never been a fan of the unity candle. There’s a lot of room for error and it’s always seemed a little awkward to me– at least I’d feel awkward doing it. So we decided to bring the family into it in a different way. I actually got this idea from my friend, Hillary’s wedding. Our parents pre-recorded messages to us. My mom and Todd’s mom recorded messages to me while my dad and Todd’s dad recorded messages to Todd. When the minister asked, “Who gives this woman to be married?”, my dad replied, “I do” and my mom and Todd’s mom came to stand next to us. Todd’s dad stepped down next to us from his Best Man position and our parents were on either side of us. As soon as they got there, my mom’s voice came over the system and said, “Dear Erin…” All four of our parents recorded the sweetest, most meaningful messages to us about love, faith, and marriage. Our music coordinator was playing “Somewhere Over the Rainbow” (one of my favorites) very softly on the piano while all of the recordings were played. It’s definitely one of my most favorite memories from the day. I knew they’d recorded the messages and I was so excited to hear what they had to say.

– The ceremony music. The prelude music included “Someone to Watch Over Me,” “Nessun Dorma,” “And So it Goes,” and lots of other love songs that I love. We exited the church to “Oh Happy Day” with a big gospel sound. My cousins and two close family friends sang “Shine on Us” and “The Prayer.” It meant so much to have special people and special songs. We couldn’t help but cry, but it was beautiful.

– The pies. We chose not to have a groom’s cake, but had groom’s pies instead. We had white chocolate banana cream pies from Soby’s displayed on scales of justice (Todd’s an attorney). Then the big pies were surrounded by miniature 3 inch pies. Someone said they ate 7 of the mini-pies! The white chocolate banana cream pies are Todd’s absolute favorite and I have to say I love them, too. You can see the shadow of the scales of justice in this picture.

– The cake. I love plain white wedding cake with almond filling. So yummy. We had a white cake, but had pale pink butter cream icing with gold ribbon. I wanted one surprise layer of red velvet cake to remind people that Southerners know how to do food!

– The food. I wanted some fancy food, but I really wanted comfort food for everyone. With the drinks and all the dancing I knew they’d need lots of yummy comfort food. In honor of South Carolina, we had a shrimp and grits station. In honor of my Louisiana roots, we had a crawfish etouffee station. We had a carving station with pork tenderloin, but I insisted that it have a side of French fries– my favorite late night snack. So we did sweet potato fries in little cones. This was the perfect dance floor snack. We had yummy cheeses, mushrooms, chicken salad tartlets, and more Southern fun!

— okay, there’s more, but this post is so long right now that I think I need to post the rest later. And next time there will be pictures.

looking back…

As I reflect on the whole wedding planning process, there are a few things that stick out to me. We started off with a budget, but it grew (and grew and grew) and I’ve heard that you should expect to go over budget.

My parents and I each had things that were really important to us and because they were funding the affair and I love them dearly their opinion was not taken lightly. The most important things to us happened to be the most expensive, of course.

– The photography. We knew that it would be a challenge to bring Kelly of Kelly Moore Photography and her assistant or husband all the way to South Carolina from Louisiana and that we’d have to pay for it. But I also knew that I have never seen anyone’s work and liked it as much as I love Kelly’s. She is also an old friend of mine and I knew how comfortable we’d be with her. We definitely got what we paid for and I’m so thrilled to have these amazing images with us forever!

– My dress and shoes. This was one of the first things we did and I had no idea what I wanted in a dress. We didn’t set a budget for the dress because I had no idea what to expect and I wanted to buy the dress that I felt the best in. I saw the high end and the higher end and the middle of the road when it came to prices. I ended up falling in love with a very simple, highly structured, Carolina Herrera gown that didn’t totally bust our budget. We bought the dress and veil at Warren Barron Bridal in Highland Park Village in Dallas. I’d send anyone there for the most amazing experience. The veil was by Angel Sanchez and completely finished the look of the dress. I also feel like I have an heirloom piece waiting to happen in my veil. It is timeless and classic and the lace is just perfectly detailed. My mom told me that she wanted to buy me some special shoes to wear with my dress, but they couldn’t be white because I had to wear them again. And I’m such a shoe fiend that I never wanted to wear white shoes at my wedding, anyway! I found the perfect gold brocade d’orsay Manolos that went perfectly with my pink and gold color scheme.

-The music. Todd and I knew that we had to have the Root Doctors play at our reception. They were out of our budget, so we decided to pay for that ourselves instead of having my parents fund it. This was one of our best decisions. The band was amazing and completely made the party! We also knew that we wanted our very talented friend to come down and play and sing at the wedding in addition to arranging all of the music for the organist and string quartet. He agreed, but we had to fly him down. The ceremony music would not have gone off nearly as seemlessly without him and this was money well-spent.

– The paper. We started off with our Save the Date and after looking through books and options, I knew that we’d have to go custom. We had a lot of information to get out through the Save the Date, I wanted to include a photo from our engagement session, and I wanted the cover to be the lace design from Todd’s mother’s handkerchief. That lace theme came back on the invitation and again, that was custom and letterpress. We brought it back again for the cover of the program and then I used it again when I designed little table signs. I am an event planner and believe in branding the event and setting the tone for the event in the beginning stages. I think we did that and hopefully everyone’s expectations were met.

Next up… I’ll tell you some of my favorite things about the day and how we kept it about us.

they're here!

My excitement to write this entry is overwhelming! I checked our wonderfully talented photographer’s blog (Kelly Moore Photography) today and was so thrilled to find some of our wedding photos on there. I am at a total loss for words about how beautiful they are! The ceremony photos are beautiful and sentimental. The reception photos are lively and really show just how much fun the party was. Her detail shots capture every little thing that I put into the wedding. Really, Kelly is the best!

I’ll do a few posts over the next few days to show each part of the wedding based around Kelly’s phenomenal photos, but here are a couple that I couldn’t wait to show you!

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