my little helper

Every night, around 11:00, Hudson and I go into his room to begin his bedtime routine. I turn off all the lights and close all the curtains. I change his diaper and give him his bottle. I burp him and then I swaddle him. After I swaddle him I give him his pacifier and rock him for about five minutes. Then I put him in his crib. And the whole time I’m doing this, Fiona sits in the corner in Hudson’s chair.

In the middle of the night when he starts to cry, Fiona is already up, waiting for me to get up and go to Hudson’s  room to feed him and change him. While I’m changing him she stands there at the changing table with me as if to monitor what’s going on. When I head for the rocking chair to feed Hudson and rock him, Fiona heads for Hudson’s chair. Or I guess it’s her chair now.

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Sidenote: Last night, Fiona left her chair and came over to sit on the floor next to the rocking chair. A few minutes later, she moved to the other side of the chair. She’s never this indecisive about where she wants to be, so I assumed she needed to tinkle. The lights were out in Hudson’s room and we were trying to be very quiet to get him down. Todd came in to take Fiona outside and I put Hudson in his crib. When I got up to leave the nursery I started glancing around the floor to make sure Fiona hadn’t messed up anymore. Sure enough, she had thrown up right next to the ottoman– on the gorgeous polka dot rug. We couldn’t turn on the lights for fear of waking Hudson, so Todd and I got a flashlight and he held the flashlight while I scrubbed the floor. As if we didn’t have enough to deal with already in that moment… thanks Fiona!

another helter skelter monday post

We had a great weekend– and it seemed to last longer this time! We actually got out of the house every day to do something fun for the first time since Hudson was born. It wore me out and wore Hudson out, but it was nice to get out of the house just for a little bit.

1. Shopping. Friday night, the three of us went to the mall to try to find some things for me to wear while my body is in transition. I’ve been wearing yoga pants for 6 weeks and it has got to stop! I needed some things that I can wear at the beach and an outfit a rehearsal dinner and a dress for a wedding. I was happy to see that I can fit back into Small tops and got a few really cute tops at BR. I was upset, however, to see that despite losing 30 of the 42 pounds I gained, I am still wearing pants 3 sizes bigger than my normal size. I only bought two pair of pants (one white and one black) and a pair of jeans to get me through this phase. The shopping trip was successful when it wasn’t depressing me.

2. Weight gain stress. I’ve just got to lose the weight. I wasn’t obsessed with it during the pregnancy. I accepted that I was going to gain weight and didn’t focus on it. But now that Hudson is here and I’m trying to feel like myself again, it’s hard to feel like yourself when you can’t wear any of your clothes. I’ve been to the dark side and you’ve all heard that story– I don’t want to go back. Now that we had to stop breastfeeding (due to lots of medical issues that I’ve chosen not to get too detailed with on the blog– for your benefit, trust me) I am not as concerned with getting enough calories. I’m still on my very specific diet that my doctor gave me to help the healing process, but it’s nice not to have to get those 300 extra calories in every day when you’re trying to lose weight.

… alright, enough pity party

3. Birth annoncements. The birth announcements will be mailed out tomorrow. Being away from work for so many weeks, my hands aren’t as strong as they used to be. I’m not on the computer as often and I’m not writing with a pen and paper as often. When I addressed those 200 birth announcements, I thought my hand was going to fall off!

4. Date night. Todd and I had our first date since Hudson was born. We went to see The Hangover. I know it’s not the best date movie, but we both really wanted to laugh and I wanted to make sure that I didn’t take him to see something that would cause him to roll his eyes through the entire movie. We both did laugh a lot. Funny movie. A little yuck at times, but really funny.

5. Sleepy baby. Hudson slept five hours on Saturday night. Not sure what happened to that last night, but Saturday was a good night! The good news is… he always goes right back to sleep after he wakes up and eats. I saved a lot of your earlier suggestions on getting through the night and have been reading them over to figure out what might work best for us. I don’t remember who asked this question, but we do swear by The Happiest Baby on the Block. At least for soothing and calming techniques. It’s magic!

6. A blogging rant. I appreciate the friendships that I’ve made through blogging so much. I know that there are readers that don’t comment so I haven’t directly communicated with you via email, but I do appreciate that you read. Those of you that do comment have become great friends to me. I love the community that has formed through all of these newlywed, young professional, engaged, in college, working mom, and stay at home mom blogs. The support and encouragement that has developed is so much fun and I love to see what everyone is up to. I addressed 15 birth announcements to friends that I’ve made through blogging. Beautiful!

I have to ask one question… because I know other bloggers have dealt with this, too… tell me if you think that just because we have blogs and write about our lives, we want advice on how to live our lives and how to make decisions about our lives including, but not limited to, medical decisions, job decisions, life decisions, and child-raising decisions. Is that why any of you started your blogs? Or did you start your blog to have a place to voice your thoughts and opinions or just track your daily happenings? I thought so.

7. Church. We had our first Sunday back to church yesterday. We took Hudson to the nursery and Todd and I went to Sunday school. It was so great to see our friends! I have loved being at home with Hudson, but when I got out yesterday I felt like an animal coming out of hibernation. He did great in the nursery and was sound asleep when we came to pick him up, so we seized the opportunity and went to Zoe’s Kitchen for lunch. Here’s a picture of Hudson and me right before we left for church. I love his little Bailey Brothers bubble. It has sailboats on it. And this was his first time to wear shoes. He’s such a little southern gentleman!

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8. Books. I finished My Sister’s Keeper yesterday. I really enjoyed the book. I haven’t seen the movie yet– wanted to finish the book first. I did hear that the ending is completely different, so I have a good idea how the movie ends. I can never understand why they change the story so drastically from the book to the movie.

9. Giveaways. I’ve got a couple of giveaways coming up in the next two weeks from two fun companies. I just need to get my act together so I can get the details straight and get it posted. Stick with me.

who is 6 weeks old today?

This guy.

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I can’t believe it has been six weeks. But then I can. It feels like he has been with us longer than six weeks, but then it also feels like I was still pregnant just yesterday. 

Hudson is such a good baby. He has been sleeping in his crib since the day we brought him home. I never even considered the Pack ‘n Play or bassinet. Our bedroom is upstairs, but because of my surgery, I can only take the stairs once a day. We’ve been sleeping downstairs in the guest bedroom next door to Hudson’s nursery. He loves his crib. We have a great new sound machine that plays all night long and he’s on a great schedule and lets us know when he wants to eat.

He is eating every three hours during the day. At night, we feed him at 11:00 p.m. and he goes five hours before the next feeding. We really appreciate him letting us sleep. 

Because of all of my complications, I gave up on breastfeeding last week. Hudson was doing fine, but I wasn’t able to satisfy him, so we were supplementing with formula at every feeding, too. It just got to be too much trying to nurse him and bottle feed at every feeding. We had a good five weeks with it and hopefully my situation will be different with the next baby. (Spare me the what I should have done to increase my supply comments– we tried it all. This body just wants me to heal.) 

I don’t have an official weight on him at this point, but he was 9 lbs 6 oz at birth, 8 lbs 6 oz at two days old, back to 9 lbs 6 oz at one week, and he weighed 10 lbs at two weeks. We’re guessing that he weighs at least 12 lbs now. Maybe 13. My left arm is getting really strong!

We go to the beach August 4-11 and we’re going to use that time to work on getting him to sleep through the night. A good bottle of wine and the sound of the ocean might help me through it!

Millie Holloman photos of Hudson

Note: Many of you asked questions about our gallery wall in your comments, so I’ve answered the most common question at the end of the post.

A few weeks ago, the amazingly talented Millie Holloman of Wilmington, NC came to our house to photograph Hudson. I first heard about Millie through our wedding photographer, Kelly Moore. Millie and Kelly (along with two other photographers) host the Love Affair workshop for female photographers every year. I found out about this workshop and Millie’s work through Kelly’s blog

We wanted newborn pictures of Hudson for our family wall, but also for the birth announcement. Millie was such a joy to work with. I knew that she is a brilliant wedding photographer, but she was so great with a baby. I think this is pretty rare. She was so patient! Hudson was not wanting to fall asleep and Millie just waited it out with us for him to be in a good mood… and finally for him to fall asleep. It’s easy to get stressed out when your baby won’t stop crying and you’ve got one of the best photographers in the country in your house trying to take his picture! But she was so great and I can’t say enough good things about her.

The images are just so precious– especially because he’s growing so quickly. I can’t wait to go to Wilmington to get some family photos on the beach with Millie.

I’m not going to share the birth announcement with you until we mail it out, but here’s a peek at some of the photos she took. Isn’t he dreamy?

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