31 Days, Day 7: Prayer

I missed Day 7.

I spent the afternoon in Charlotte yesterday with one of my best friends, Christina. It had been too long since we’d had a day to just catch up. We literally spent all of our time together just walking and talking. Christina is a big “two birds, one stone” person, so it was only fitting that we could catch up for two hours while getting some exercise.

Yesterday morning, I was extremely sad to hear the news that my sweet blog friend, Julee, lost her beloved husband Matt. You can read more about it here.

Most of my day was spent in prayer. I had a lot of time in the car, and was just covering Julee and her precious baby girl, Preslee in prayer. I know they are surrounded by family and friends, and I believe that this is when the Body of Christ is most powerful.

Please join me in praying for them. My heart is broken for this beautiful woman and her sweet baby girl.

31 Days, Day 6: Winning

Today was one of the most fun Saturdays I can remember.

The Gamecocks (#6) played Georgia (#5) today in Columbia. ESPN’s College Game Day came to town and set up their show on the Horseshoe. Todd and I got engaged on the Horseshoe (lots of people have gotten engaged on the Horseshoe). It’s historic and it’s just a special place.

The university administration let the students camp out on the Horseshoe in preparation for College Game Day. They delivered pizzas, played music, and just made the whole Game Day experience really fun for the students.

So, we wanted to walk to the Horseshoe from our house and take the boys. It’s less than a mile there from our house. So the Fuller family came over this morning with their stroller, and we loaded up all the kids and walked to the Horseshoe.

Hudson was a little out of sorts when we got there, but once he got to borrow Gracie’s “princess cup” he was all better.

Hayes was thrilled. He just wanted to run around and check everything out.

I love it when our kids are all together. We always joke when we take their pictures that we’ll show them again at their rehearsal dinners.

After we walked back home, I went and got my hair cut and highlighted. There are very few things that are as great as a cut and highlight.

Todd and I got a babysitter tonight and went to the game. The traffic was just crazy. If you’re not planning on going to the game, be very careful not to get in game day traffic. It took us two hours to drive three miles and park at the stadium. We should have just walked from our house.

But the Gamecocks dominated tonight. It was such a fun game with the most fun atmosphere I’ve ever experienced at Williams Brice Stadium. The fans were on fire, and the Gamecocks just played so well. It was a great night!

And honestly the best part? As part of the pre game “entertainment,” the whole crowd got to witness a military family reunite with their father/husband on the field. It was a complete surprise to everyone and was one of the most wonderful things I’ve ever seen.

And guess what!

We have a contract on our house! So many reasons to celebrate today!

*This is Day 6 in my 31 Days of Back to Basics Blogging series.

31 Days, Day 5: He whispers

Yesterday was just a doozy. I felt like I couldn’t get ahead and was just dragging behind all day with everything.

In the middle of the morning, I got an unexpected phone call from my friend Beth, and there was just something about talking to her that turned my day around. She had no idea that she had encouraged me, but she did. I felt a huge load lift from me after I hung up the phone.

Later in the day I talked to Nina and to Crist, and was once again so thankful to be able to just be honest with a couple of friends about what’s wrong when something is wrong.

I was telling my mom about my phone call from Beth, and my mom reminded me of the Max Lucado book titled, “When God Whispers Your Name.” And I feel like that’s what that phone call was. Beth didn’t know it, but I felt it.

We had a great day today and we could hear  God whispering our names even louder today, as we received a little bit of hopeful news.

The boys had “fun lunch” at school today and Hudson stayed after school for karate. Hayes and I killed a little bit of time by working on some of his activities from his early interventionist. I can see improvement already. I’m so excited about this process.

When we went to pick up Hudson from karate, we saw him doing this really fun activity. Their karate class doesn’t wear the full uniform because they go straight to karate after school, and there’s just not enough time for them all to get dressed. But they do have belts. So now Hudson is a white belt.

They were doing this fun activity with balloons where the balloons had a “bully face.” And they were hitting and kicking the balloons. The boys and girls were having the best time.

One of the other great things about karate is that their teacher is very strict about two things. One is discipline. He wants the kids to always be listening and to obey. The other thing is that he tells them not to touch other kids. There is a strong message about the purpose of karate and that they need to be respectful, kind, and gentle to their friends and family.

We spent the evening with some friends over at their house. Our kids had a great time playing together and it was a fun night out of the house.

Tomorrow, Todd and I are going to take the boys over to the Horseshoe on the USC campus for College Game Day. We’re going to the game tomorrow night, too, but we’re very excited about showing the boys the Game Day experience.

I’m thankful for lots of fresh air today, and just little whispers of hope. Those whispers made my burden a lot lighter today and I know that when I cried out yesterday, He showed up and whispered my name.

*This is Day 5 of my 31 Days of Back to Basics Blogging 

 

31 Days, Day 4: Consider it…

I’m writing this today because I’m big into commitments. And I committed to 31 Days of Back to Basics Blogging. So I’m just going to keep blogging about our days.

And some days are just ugly.

All day I’ve felt like my spirit was under attack. From the moment I woke up this morning, our day was in a tail spin.

We had a real estate agent schedule a home showing, but a specific time wasn’t narrowed down. We were frantically cleaning this morning and trying to get everyone dressed and out the door.

The chaos of the morning made me late and I had to miss my community Bible study, which is one of the things I look most forward to every week. I love the fellowship and I love learning from the leaders and all the other ladies. I was really looking forward to diving more into Proverbs and learning more about humility.

But our plans changed.

And I snapped at Todd. And I unloaded on my mom, who is very often the person who gets to hear about what’s annoying me. I lost my patience with Hudson when he insisted on wearing what he wore yesterday.

I had my first big breakdown over the house selling process and what a burden and imposition it can be on all of us at times.

It’s a rainy, gloomy day. The house showing did eventually happen. I ended up being about 10 minutes late to pick up Hudson, because in the crazy parts of the morning I neglected to check my daily calendar. I thought he had lunch at school today, and he didn’t.

Needless to say, it was an ugly day. I don’t have any photos. I don’t have any funny stories.

But when I was driving home from getting Hudson from school, I just prayed out loud. I prayed that God would protect our family and guard my heart and just turn this day around. To remove the black cloud from over my head. To help me to slow down and gain some perspective. And maybe even find some joy.

And immediately I thought of James 1. I have read the book of James so many times, and now those verses are just in me. They’re there when I need to slow down and gain perspective. They’re hiding in my heart.

James 1:2-4

Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.

 

So maybe I could just consider today’s trial a joy. Maybe?

It was a rotten day. But I can consider it joy. Because I know that my faith was absolutely tested today. And it was a reminder to speak kindly, be patient, and remember that God’s plan is perfect.

I don’t have all the answers and I know we all have days where we want to scream, “What the heck?!”

But after a few hours, and a good phone call from a Soul Sister, I’m considering it joy. I’m learning.

*This is Day 4 of 31 Days of Back to Basics Blogging

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